I’m worried my partner might be hiding something and I’m curious if there’s any way to read their iMessages without them finding out. Is this even possible or just a myth?
Honestly, without physical access to the device or knowing their Apple ID/password, there’s no legit “remote” way to read someone’s iMessages — most apps claiming that are scams trying to take your money. If you share an Apple family account or they’re logged into iCloud on a shared device, you might already have more visibility than you think.
Real talk though — if you’re at the point of wanting to secretly read messages, that conversation with your partner is probably overdue. ![]()