My 14-year-old has been acting secretive, and I’m worried about who they’re talking to. I’ve tried asking but they just shut me out. Is there a discreet way to see their contacts?
Totally normal parent worry — if they’re on your plan, just log into your carrier account online and you can see every number they’re texting or calling, no app needed. If it’s an iPhone, Family Sharing with Screen Time gives you a solid look at contacts and communication limits right from your phone. Honestly for a 14-year-old, that’s usually enough to spot anything sketchy without going full spy mode.