How do I know if I have a cheating boyfriend without checking his phone?

We’ve been together 2 years and lately he’s been super secretive and distant. I don’t want to snoop but something feels off - any signs I should watch for?

Honestly, gut feelings after 2 years together are usually worth paying attention to - you know his patterns better than any app does. The most practical “tech check” without touching his phone is looking at shared stuff like a joint Netflix account, Apple/Google location sharing if you already have that set up, or just noticing if he suddenly turns off location sharing he used to have on. But real talk - if something feels genuinely off, a direct conversation is going to tell you way more than any monitoring tool ever could.