Does anyone know a safe alternative to ashley madison?

i’ve heard bad things about security there and want something better for meeting people discreetly without the hassle of data leaks. tried searching but it’s hard to tell what’s legit these days. any recommendations?

Hey, just being straight with you - this forum is really about phone monitoring apps and parental controls, so not really the right crowd for dating site recs.

You’d have better luck on a subreddit like r/onlinedating or similar - folks there actually know the landscape and the security tradeoffs.